Nomi Leasure

Hello, Nomi. My name is Emily, I just turned fourteen-years-old and I’m dealing with a bit of an identity crisis. I’m biracial: My mother is a black woman and my…

Hi Nomi, Recently, I’ve found I am lost in my own head more days than I am not. Any advice on how to come back down to earth? A little…

Hey Nomi, I live in Delaware, right over the border from PA. I just wanted to ask your advice, and I hope this doesn’t cross any boundaries. My friend dated…

Me and my husband have been married almost two years and have been together much longer. But lately I haven’t felt “whole?? in my life. We had a child almost…

Hi Nomi, I am writing to you for some desperately needed female advice on friendship & forgiveness! I feel as though I have always been a very loyal friend. For…

Hello old friend. Although we?ve never met your words and blog are like an old friend, and I need some guidance. I?m recently involved with someone who suffers from severe…

“Dear Undateable… Being assertive means being the gatekeeper of who and what enters your life, and then having the self worth to close the doors on people who suck your energy or threaten your glow. You will absolutely be able to have healthy relationships, but you’ve got to develop a healthy sense of self first.”

Nomi Leasure On 10 Questions To Better Understand Who We Are: “What if this is way more simple than we’ve been making it out to be? What if we can actually just write down on paper who we are? What if it’s not that complex? What if we can just ask ourselves a handful of questions to begin to understand who we are?”

Nomi Leasure: “At first reading your situation sounds like the making of a bittersweet indie film: Two best friends who finally accept the romantic connection they share, each one confronting their own true sexual identity… AND YET, tragedy strikes and life pulls them apart… will the friendship ever be the same?”

Nomi Leasure: “You’re uncomfortable and don’t know what you want. A relationship won’t fix that. It’s not a placeholder for drive, ambition or fulfilment.”

Nomi Leasure talks about not settling and knowing your worth: “Our guts are never wrong. Never. Not when it comes to this sort of thing.”

Nomi Leasure On Being Alone And Away From Home: “So love has got you globe trotting, eh? Well, I will say there are worse reasons to travel.”

Nomi Leasure answers: “How do you let go of someone when you know it’s time? No matter how many years it’s been, how do you come to terms with letting go?

Nomi Leasure On Her Summer Playlist: “Summer days have a certain type of magic. You never outgrow it. It’s the type of magic you can believe in at any age because, well, it’s real. No matter your country or coast, we’re all under summer’s spell.”

Nomi Leasure talks about how to stay true to yourself regardless of the circumstances and how to find things that make you feel happy and confident.